The Thrilling Impact of Fun!

I had put Fun at the top of my list of things to accomplish while in Ashe County. And I did—so much so that when I realized my phone had fallen into the river after I jumped out of the kayak to get past some rocks, I just kept going; the peace and joy of a float down the river wasn't going to be ruined by the loss of some plastic, glass, and metals. Although, I did feel rotten about polluting the river.

Using The Power of Fun's definition that true Fun is a combination of connection, playfulness, and flow, I realize it's challenging to achieve all three simultaneously. I thought I needed playfulness, but playfulness is tricky without connection—there's too much room for misinterpretation. You can create connections in small amounts, such as while working in the studio, conversations on walks, or learning to fly fish. Talking while doing is one of the easiest ways to bond with someone. One of my hosts, One of my hosts, Anna, opened up with questions and stories while kayaking; Mike, Anna's partner, and I schmoozed over afternoon drinks, the three of us over dinner prep, eating, and cleaning up, Chris, a potter, when we were fly fishing, and Suzanne, a natural tour giver, when showing off her new town. These shared experiences are what make journies meaningful and fun.

Chris, Myself, and Suzanne at Old Barn Winery, located in the center of the Christmas tree farm

Near the end of my visit, Anna, Mike, Chris, and I experienced a perfect blend of connection, playfulness, and flow at the  River House Inn and Restaurant. As we sat on the veranda, sipping wine and beer, gazing at the New River, we shared life stories that turned into funny anecdotes and laughter. The time flowed as effortlessly as the river, and we closed the place. As Anna and I walked to the house, she said, 'That was really fun. ' And it was, but I didn't tell her why.